Monday, 29 March 2010

Kids

After the film (Larry Clark's Kids, 1995) ended and we were asked whether or not we found it shocking, I was undecided as to whether or not to put my hand up. In some ways, no - I'm well aware that things like that go on and, combined with the style in which it was filmed (like a documentary), it did make it seem realistic. On the other hand, watching graphic depictions of violence, rape and the spreading of HIV, carried out by barely-legal-looking actors, can hardly be described as a pleasant experience.


It occurs to me that perhaps the thing that people object to most about the film (and there were a lot of people who were disgusted by it, upon its release) is the apparent lack of any kind of moral compass. It is not necessarily the fact that the majority of characters are shown to be selfish, irresponsible and anti-social (and the only girl who isn't ends up being raped and contracting HIV after a single sexual encounter) that disturbs people, it's the fact that there seem to be relatively few consequences from their actions. There is a noticable lack of any kind of adult involvement in the film, unless you count the mother who breastfeeds and smokes simultaneously, in front of her teenage son's friend, or the taxi driver whose interest in the afore-mentioned HIV-infected girl makes the viewer feel a little uncomfortable.



Although in principle it seems likely that the film will act as a wake-up call for parents or wayward teenagers, or both, I think that sadly the people who could benefit most from a wake-up call are the people who are least likely to watch it (such as indifferent adults like the ones portrayed in the film). However, I can also see that it could be informative to people who are perhaps a little naive and are thinking about getting involved in areas such as those depicted in Kids. For young girls especially, I think it might be beneficial for them to take note of the storyline about the character whose mission in life is to deflower as many virgins as possible, usually succeeding by reciting a well-rehearsed speech which tells them everything they want to hear.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/films/2001/01/30/kids_1995_dvd_review.shtml


http://www.thefilmjournal.com/issue8/larryclark.html

Wednesday, 24 March 2010

Response to Raiissah's "Graffiti" Post

Graffiti's quite an interesting topic - I have to agree that I really like well-done graffiti, and public places would seem much less colourful without it!
Personally I think if you're going to do graffiti, do something slightly more imaginative than, "[insert name] woz ere '10" as something artistic or more elaborate sentences are a lot more interesting to look at/ read!

Wednesday, 17 March 2010

Response to Becky's blog on plastic surgery

I'm all for people doing what they want (as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else) but I tend to think that where this kind of stuff is concerned, there tends to be quite a lot of exploitation involved...

Not all, but some people I think resort to plastic surgery because there are psychological issues involved (you mention imagined ugly syndrome). I feel that some plastic surgeons are a little too eager to charge their clients for unnecessary procedures when the person in question could benefit from gaining confidence in other ways.

Thursday, 11 March 2010

Stalking




When a lot of people think of stalkers, they think of the extremes - the mentally unbalanced stalkers of celebrities (Jodie Foster, Michael Douglas, Anna Kournikova and others have been targets) or the violent obsessive who makes the news by eventually murdering their victim (as in cases such as those of Clare Bernal, Rana Faruqui and Tania Moore).

However, stalking is usually a lot less extreme and a lot more common than they might think. Some have estimated that as many as one in ten people have experienced stalking at some point, with the majority of perpetrators being men and the majority of victims being women. The reasons for stalking vary and so does the degree of the person's actions.

With the popularity of sites such as facebook, myspace, bebo etc, it seems that the line between stalking and being an enthusiastic social networker are becoming more and more blurred. Cyberstalking is often harder to spot than ordinary stalking because the perpetrator's actions are able to go undetected and it is debatable as to whether it is really stalking if the information was posted online for the purpose of other people seeing it.
I think that all stalking is an invasion of privacy that can have long-lasting and serious effects on the victims. There is a lot of grey area in terms of what constitutes stalking - I think perhaps if someone is reluctant to admit to things they've done (e.g. how much time they spend looking at a person's facebook page) then this could be a cause for concern.
A news report on stalking statistics: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/europe/4733023.stm

Sunday, 7 March 2010

Reply to J-J's blog on animal cruelty

This is a good topic to discuss, and I'm glad you raised it because I completely agree.
Unlike some other areas of bad behaviour, I can find absolutely nothing to say in favour of animal cruelty and wouldn't even say "well if people want to it's up to them" because, as you've pointed out, it's unnecessary, cowardly, malicious and shows a complete lack of empathy.

Wednesday, 3 March 2010

Shoplifting



Some argue that shoplifting is not really stealing at all, but a victimless crime. I disagree. I don't see how shoplifting is different from any other type of stealing - true, there are types of stealing that are worse (mugging, stealing from a friend etc) but that doesn't mean that shoplifting is not stealing.

For one thing, it's not the corporations that lose out on the money - they just put their prices up so that their paying customers have to cover the cost.

However, I would be more understanding if someone needed to shoplift if they or their family were starving because then it would be for necessity rather than greed. Having said this, a lot of the people who shoplift don't actually need to. The recession saw a rise in shoplifting by the middle classes, who swiped a variety of expensive items in order to sustain their lifestyle and celebrities, such as Winona Ryder, Jennifer Capriati and Farrah Fawcett, have also been caught shoplifting.









Those who do not shoplift for financial or material gain in itself may shoplift simply because it gives them a thrill (this was explored in an episode of Family Guy). In fact, shoplifting may be closely linked with kleptomania, which is an irresistable compulsion to take things which don't belong to you (Winona Ryder is believed to be a kleptomaniac). Others (mainly younger people), however, might just do it for a dare, or because of peer pressure.

Sunday, 28 February 2010

Prostitution


In my mind, there seems to be something sleazy about paying someone for sex. Particularly when you consider that street prostitution tends to be closely linked to drug abuse and addiction as well as sexually transmitted diseases including HIV/Aids. Street prostitutes are at a particularly high risk of being robbed, assaulted, raped or even murdered by customers or pimps and are also at a high risk for being arrested.

Having said this, you can't make prostitution go away by making it illegal. There will always be women or men prepared to sell their bodies and there will always be customers for this. I personally think that legalised brothels would be safer if they were run properly as this would mean the sex workers would have regular health checks, condom use would be mandatory to prevent the spread of STDs and their environment would reduce their risk of being abused by customers.

I also think that if someone is forced into prostitution by their circumstances (e.g. running away from home, substance addiction) then they should receive help. If someone chooses to be a prostitute for whatever reason (such as Belle du Jour) then whatever my personal views, if it's not hurting anyone then I don't see a problem.

Friday, 26 February 2010

Masturbation



This is definitely a strange topic - I don't see how masturbation (a.k.a wanking, beating the meat, gagging the clam, muffin buffin', backstroke roulette, boxing the clown or choking kojak etc) can be considered wrong or even bad (it's not harmful to anyone and can even be considered a natural behaviour), but that still doesn't dispel the discomfort and embarrassment which most people (including myself) feel when faced with the possibility of actually discussing the topic.
Social attitudes towards masturbation could also explain the way in which masturbation is often depicted in popular entertainment - either as a source of humour (as in American Pie, Something About Mary, Fast Times at Ridgemount High etc) or as something disturbing (the Exorcist, Single White Female, the remake of Psycho). Whilst sex scenes are an acceptable addition to mainstream films of various genres, without necessarily having to be either funny or disgusting, it seems that for the most part, masturbation scenes have to either evoke laughter or revulsion to distract from the discomfort which people might feel otherwise.

It seems that we have been conditioned to view masturbation as a taboo subject - we are much more accepting of it today than in past times, when "self-abuse" was considered one of the worst kinds of sins. Measures to prevent people from masturbating included the spreading of myths (that masturbation causes blindness, the growth of hair on the palms and even death) as well as some pretty nasty devices...

However, clearly not everyone feels embarrassed by the subject as there are regular masturbation marathons, mainly held in America (I read that the current world record is 9 hours 58 minutes): http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/showbiz/article-23185910-c4-to-cover-marathon-masturbation-session.do


Masturbation in music: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZLfasMPOU4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUaVprkR6jQ

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Icicle-lyrics-Tori-Amos/47834A5FEB6529B04825688F0027A5FD



Tuesday, 23 February 2010

Lying With Integrity






Whilst I think that lying should be avoided unless there is a good reason for it, I don't think it's as simple as saying that lying is always wrong and telling the truth is always right.

I agree that lying can be extremely unpleasant, especially when done to be hurtful, to cause trouble or to cover up something selfish the liar might have done. However, I personally think the main things to take into account when trying to decide whether to tell the truth or to lie are:
  • does someone have a right to know the truth (e.g. with infidelity)?

  • will telling the truth serve any kind of purpose (e.g. answering honestly when a friend asks if an outfit suits them so that if the answer is no they can find something that looks better)

  • which will cause more harm?

For instance, whilst I want to be truthful I also don't want to upset people unnecessarily, so if it comes to a choice between a harmless white lie or hurting people by telling the truth, I would choose the former. In fact, I think it is sometimes overlooked that the truth, just like lies, can be used intentionally to cause harm, but some people find it easier to justify doing this with the words, "I'm only being honest".

Breaking confidences, getting people into trouble out of spite and verbal bullying (such as name-calling) can all involve honesty but I don't think that makes them any less unpleasant and I resent honesty being used to try and make malice seem more morally justifiable.

In extreme cases, lying can even be noble, such as concealing the whereabouts of Jewish families in Nazi Germany.


(Right: the biblical Rahab who lied to protect two Israelite spies)





An article on the notorious liar Jeffrey Archer (left) can be found here: http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/1999/dec/09/archer.politics

Saturday, 20 February 2010

Smoking

Firstly, I'm a non-smoker. Secondly, I'm not anti-smoking.

Although I personally can't imagine what it must be like to enjoy smoking tobacco (I tried it a few times before accepting the fact that it does absolutely nothing for me) I equally can't understand why some non-smokers feel the need to be so evangelical.

Whilst even the ASH (Action on Smoking and Health) website proclaims that it "does not attack smokers or condemn smoking", there are still others who seem determined to try and force smokers into quitting their habit.

This can be seen in advertising - over the last half a century or so we have gone from actively advertising tobacco products to creating some rather extreme anti-smoking ads...


Pro Smoking ads
















Anti Smoking ads (Translation for Spanish ad: A non-smoking section in a restaurant is like a non-urinating section in a swimming pool)


Thursday, 11 February 2010

Suggestions for Week 12

For a field trip we could go to London - judging by what I've heard from people who come from there, we'll probably see quite a lot of bad behaviour.
Other possible topics to study in class: swearing, gambling, areas in which bad behaviour is seen as glamourous (e.g. "rock'n'roll)